Jun 25, 2012

Farewell, My Friend



The big day’s almost here – that is, the day we’re leaving Atlanta for good.  Matthew’s been here for almost 9 years, and I’ve been here for over 5.  While I am looking forward to getting settled in Kingsport, saying good-bye to Atlanta is a little bittersweet.

            I will always associate Atlanta with where Matthew and I started our life as a family.  Cheesy as it may be, it will have a special place in my heart.  Here, we became grown-ups together, built our first house, started our respective careers, found ourselves and learned about each other.  But there are some things about this city that Matthew and I will both miss….

  • Matthew will tell you he’s going to miss the food the most.  We have our regular favorites and we’re going to miss being able to drive a few minutes to unbelievable, affordable brunches, lunches, dinners, drinks and snacks - $2 sushi at Thaicoon on Mondays and Tuesdays, fish tacos from Taqueria del Sol, pepperoni and onion pizza with esperanza dressing from Mellow Mushroom, chips and cheese and all things unhealthy at Taco Mac watching any kind of game, the absolute best wings in the world at the Wing Factory, salads and wine from Roxx, sangria that will change your life from El Taco– I could go on and on.  Then there’s the places we save for special occasions (our pocketbooks would be empty!) – Atlanta Fish Market, Chops, Paul’s, Nakato, South City Kitchen, Canoe, Wisteria – again, I could go on and on.  If you’re ever headed this way for a visit, give me a call.  I have lots of recommendations!
  • Can I write about Atlanta without talking about shopping?!?  I love the way Lenox Square mall smells.  I’m not kidding…really….I go in there, and I feel like I am at home.  We were doing a little house shopping last weekend, and I told Matthew that we needed to savor our last trip as true Atlantans; from now on, we’ll be tourists.   And although I love the malls, the countless boutiques and hidden shops carry all kinds of gems you can’t find anywhere else.
  • We have spent many a good night at Turner Field, cheering on the Bravos.  Matthew has schooled me in baseball, mainly so I could pay attention and know what I was cheering for. 
  • And there’s so much to do!  Concerts, games, festivals, parks – there’s never a bored day. 
  • If you asked me what I am going to miss most, I would say the anonymity.  We are moving back home for lots of reasons, many of which relate to the advantages of a smaller city, and really, I am looking forward to getting back home where I can run to the grocery store to grab a forgotten ingredient, where my future kids can play outside after dark and where I can get home from work in less than half an hour.  But I love that I can get lost in the craziness of this humongous city.  One of my absolute favorite things about Atlanta is going to a crowded hole-in-the-wall restaurant on any night of the week and being able to have a private dinner with my husband amongst a mass of people.  When I had days off from school, I would go to a movie in the middle of day all by myself, just because I could, and no one thought anything about it.  I love wondering the sidewalks of Virginia Highlands, window-shopping and taste-testing samples, spending some time with myself.  I would not trade the comfort of Kingsport for inconspicuousness, but I would be lying if I said I was not going to miss it at all.


I told Matthew that I am coming back to Atlanta once a month, but our summer and fall schedule is already filling up, and let’s be honest, that’s probably unrealistic.  Plus, I’m ready to embrace Kingsport as my home again, and Atlanta will be one more place where we can get away for a little vacay. 

Thank you, Atlanta, for some great years.  We’ll never forget our good memories here!


Until next time, sending love,
The Spiveys 

Jun 15, 2012

Take Me Back to the Day


Well it’s official….I have a job!  I sent my contract to the school today.  I have accepted a faculty position at a nearby pharmacy school and will be practicing at a hospital in the Tri-Cities area.  I have a huge feeling of relief and am incredibly thankful for this opportunity.  I can’t believe that I’m actually getting to do what I want to do despite not matching with a residency program a few months ago.  Like I told someone recently, if I could do anything in the world right now, it would be teaching and precepting pharmacy students.  It’s easy to preach that God knows what’s best for us and that His plans are better than ours, but this was a chance for me to see it for myself and actually practice what I tell everyone else.

Everything is falling into place for Matthew and me right now.  I go to bed right now and wonder if anyone else is praying as desperately as I am that our good fortune continues.  I know there are people hurting nearby and around the world right now, and I do not know what I have done to deserve such a good life.  I try to remember that all I can do now is pay the good fortune forward as best I can. 

On a lighter note…..there are so many things that I love about Atlanta – they will soon (less than 2 weeks!) be a blog of their own.  There will need to be some kind of alcohol involved because I hope to be in a sappy, feel-good cry mood.  But one of things I love is Big ‘90’s Weekend on 94.1.  It runs from 5 pm on Fridays to Sunday evenings. 

There’s some current pop music on there, too, but I tell you no lie, every song from the ‘90’s makes me think to myself, “Oh yeah – I forgot about this song!  This is my jam!”  Just today, I heard “Waterfalls,” “Livin’ la vida Loca” and “Only Wanna be with You.”  I mean, for reals!?!

It’s funny when Matthew and I are listening together.  I love the late 1990’s (and sometimes early 2000’s) songs, particularly anything by Britney, Mariah or any boy band.  Matthew, on the other hand, likes other people….bands I don’t even know the names of.  Four years is a big difference when you’re that young, I guess.  Unlike the XM ‘90’s station or the Pandora ‘90’s station, this one plays only the songs that were popular on the radio back in the day….so you can sing along with every word.  And those words just come back from somewhere deep in my brain!  I wonder if I had learned history or chemistry in songs if I would remember them?

I might have to tune into this station via their website when we move back to TN or write letter after letter to the local stations to start something similar.  There’s nothing a little Oasis, Whitney, Madonna or TLC can’t fix.  And no week can end badly when you’re wrapping it up with Alanis, the Spice Girls or U2.

     I’m off to dinner now with some co-residents.  Only a few more days left with themL   Hope everyone’s summer is starting off wonderfully! 


Until next time, sending love,
The Spiveys